Why I Blog

It’s a great feeling to be able to influence and inspire such that people make a change in their life based on our encounter. I could say this is the reason for blogging about my journey. Or, with an estimated 1.9M new cancer diagnosis in the US each year, I could say I’m blogging to help educate others. But the truth is I’m doing this for very selfish, self-centered reasons.
Back when I was in school, I would do anything to avoid writing. Instead of taking the standard English class at UCLA which required 5 papers, I did my English equivalent at Community College over the summer and transferred a pass/no pass grade; this required only 2 papers. I somehow got waived out of a psychology research class, required for my major, which would have been 5 papers. But over the years, something has changed. Writing was no longer a burden. Maybe it’s because I formed opinions and thoughts, and I’m realizing I want to share these things with my friends!
At the same time, while I’m happy with my choice, I am learning that single life is different later in life. It was fun and exciting when I was working, and healthy, and could do a lot of activities. I interacted with a lot of people. Life is different now that I’m somewhat retired (still trying to figure this out) and managing health issues. There’s more alone time and I don’t have a “go to” person for the minutia in my life. Who do I text when I’m getting a PET scan and the fire alarm goes off? I want to share these things with my friends!
And finally, when I did this over 10 years ago in 2013 when I was first diagnosed, blogging gave me a sense of community and brought me closer to my friends. This is good for my mental wellbeing. In the event that my selfishness is able to inform, inspire, or influence others, I’d call it a win-win!
